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HarleyPaul 49 M
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Posted on: Aug 20, 2006

Why get married again ?

Ok I am  divorced  and I have met another woman . one
problem is she is extreamly jealous and keeps hinting to me
she wants to be my wife and be with me forever .We have
known each other for almost a year . She now lives with me
and just recently she has been doing th hinting about
getting married . I keep telling her I am not ready for that
and she seems to take it as she is not good enough for me or
I want to look around for another . I keep exsplaining it to
her over and over again but that only lasts for a short time
then its back to the same questions again about getting
married . Any advise on how to tell her so she will
understand and not keep going over the same questions over
and over again ?

 

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anonymous

Posted on: Sep 02, 2006

Re: Why get married again ?

You need to be very honest with her, you were married once
and it didnt work, let her know you need more time to be
sure about such an important decision. Tell her that if you
get married again it will be with her but you just want to
make sure it will work

 

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anonymous

Posted on: Oct 14, 2006

Re: Why get married again ?

maybe you could have a long engament keep her happy and you
get sum peace. I understand how u feel it is a big thing
when u are divorced. and by the way love your harley

 

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Fred12331 52 M
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Posted on: Dec 07, 2006

Re: Why get married again ?

Are you nuts? You are living together, you have already
explained it to her once, maybe twice and she is still
hinting? This is going to lead to trouble, if you marry
her!! I was almost to that point a couple of months ago.
You need to find out what she is after, and beware of
the positive Pregenancy test. It happened to me, only thing
was that she didn't know that I can't have kids, thanks to
my X!! So the ploy didn't work. When I found out the truth
and I got home from work, everything was gone!! Dude, the
warning signs are there. Beware, women are trouble!! They
are fun to play with and spend time with, but the ones you'd
want to spend the rest of your life with, are few and far
between.

 

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cmandgtit 45 F
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Posted on: Jan 03, 2007

Re: Why get married again ?

I tend to agree with fred. The warning signs are there with
her. It's trouble brewing... it's more the jealousy part of
it than the getting married part. Watch out! Even the women
that are few and far between end up paying the price for the
ones like fred had. Believe me, I KNOW.

 

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CaptainNemo0 40 M
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Posted on: Jan 24, 2007

Re: Why get married again ?

Put your foot down and tell her once and for all to get her
off your back. If marriage is not in the cards for you, (I
know it is not for me) just tell ouright that it is not
going to happen. If she can't handle it, maybe you two
aren't going to work out.

 

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